Are you having a hard time meeting a women? If so, have you asked yourself why? When is the last time you approached, or even flirted with a woman? I know it sounds obvious, but your are never going to find a girl unless you are willing to take advantage of opportunities that arise. On that note, have you recently put yourself in situations that would even give you an opportunity to talk to a woman?

 Happy thanksgiving everyone. Sometimes a lack of motivation can be our greatest hindrance. Whether applied to your dating life or just in general, it is important that you take action if you want to move forward. As opportunities arise, specifically with women, make sure you seize them and at least try to succeed.

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So have you guys ever met a girl you were really drawn to, who throws you some awesome signals, and plays along with your flirty banter, only to find out later that she has a boyfriend? It can certainly be frustrating at times, but don’t let it get you down. Instead, let it add to your experience and confidence.

Guys, the only way to get a girl is to talk to her. If you are not comfortable in doing so,then you are going to have a difficult time finding success. The good news is that talking to women, just like anything else, is a skill than can be learned and perfected if you practice. For that reason, it is important that you flirt ALL THE TIME.

 Hi everyone,

My name is Benjamin Thenslo and this begins the first day of my blog which will revolve around dating. I will share experiences, questions, humor, and anything else that might come to mind. I have always had a decent ability to read people and to pay attention to the small things that speak to their personalities, traits, habits, etc. This has allowed me to develop a good rapport with and understanding of women over the years. However, when I was younger, in my early 20's, I lacked confidence with women and did not believe in my true value. Once I learned the importance of believing in one's self, my confidence grew, and so did my sucess with women.

A Woman's Instincts

There are many techniques that can be used with women, and you should certainly know these. However, the complicated part comes in the application of these techniques and which ones to use for a specific girl. From one woman to the next, an understanding of their personality is necessary if you want to interact with them on the highest level, thereby giving the best chance for success and returned attraction. Generally speaking, most women have similar innate instincts, and for that reason, the basic fundamentals of attraction do not change much from one woman to the next. However, to appeal to a woman's higher level of attraction which exists outside of these basis instincts requires a specific understanding of that particular woman. Catering to a woman’s innate nature will get your foot in the door and build initial attraction, but to be successful over the long haul you must cater not only to her inate instincts, but also to her other levels of attraction. Add a comment